To this day, both Camila and Fernando Jr. have fond memories of their home country. But, around the time they were forming themselves in their youth, their country fell into instability with an economic crisis. It took a world-class parenting job from Fernando Sr. and Carolina to shield their children from the harsh realities of violence around them.
“We lived in a moment of much tension, sadness, desolation,” Fernando Sr. said.
Camila recalled a specific memory of her father making her trip back from school a race to see who could get home the fastest, hurrying past the protests in the streets.
Fernando Sr. had an even more harrowing story. He remembered watching “Life is Beautiful”, a Holocaust film where a father uses his imagination to preserve his son’s childhood innocence while in a concentration camp.
“I literally practiced that with Camila,” he said. “Camila was in a course to learn English there in Venezuela. I would take her because the vehicles couldn’t travel [on the streets] because they were blocked due to the protests … On this side, there were protests and gunshots, and I would take Camila and make her look to the other side where nothing was happening. Those were hard times.”
Moving to the U.S. and finding football
The decision to leave their lifelong home and their family there was full of uncertainty and sacrifice. Fernando Sr. and Carolina worked long hours at jobs to make ends meet in the States.
“It’s a blessing,” Carolina said. “It doesn’t matter to me what time I have to get up for work … We came here, above all, for them. We put 20 years in two suitcases.”
They hoped Fernando Jr. and Camila would be afforded opportunities they wouldn’t be able to get anywhere else, in the form of education and experiences. It was particularly important for Fernando Jr., as the infrastructure around special education in the United States provided him more opportunity to thrive.
“My parents pretty much left everything behind so they could give my brother and I a good life,” Camila said. “They were raised there, and they were willing to give that up for me and my brother to have a better future.”