Xavier got the help he needed through smaller class settings. It took extra work on his and his family’s part — like when his mom would make him sign up for sports regardless of how he did previously.
Tia said it was tough to see Xavier get made fun of in classes, but she was so impressed with how hard he worked to come out of his shell.
“He worked very hard for it, because it was something he wanted,” Tia said. “That makes me proud, and I see that in him now. He's very strong-willed and competitive, so he's always determined. Number one is the only slot for him, as far as he’s concerned.”
His bond with his older sister, DaZhane ‘Daisy’ Eatmon, most definitely helped him develop his competitive edge and will to try new things. Their dynamic is one that can only truly be understood by listening to their dialogue, those classic sibling back-and-forths forged by years of chicanery, memories and above all love.
Like for many others on the team, Unified was a catalyst for Xavier’s personal growth.
“Definitely his confidence [has grown],” Daisy said. “Before, it was really about having fun for him. Whether he’d win or lose, and he hated to lose, but he still had a good time. But once the team and the coach [gave] him the opportunity to show how good he is, he really started to flourish.”
Xavier has always wanted more, and not just goals. Tia and Daisy couldn’t stop laughing thinking about their road trips when Xavier would ask for a burger at the sight of every single fast-food sign, even if he had one in his hand already.
The laughter in the living room of Xavier’s new apartment was never-ending. It’s exactly where he gets his jovial on-pitch attitude from.
“We are a fun family,” Tia said. “We celebrate. You'll definitely see that come out through him.”